Apart from pheromone products specifically designed for this purpose, the most serious part of this question is answered by looking to YOURSELF.
Withdrawing, and analyzing who you really are and what you want out of life.
The part about building foundations for your life, finding hobbies, and developing magnetism etc…
The second part, is a bit more “strategic” depending on your situation.
Sometimes you meet a woman, hit if off great, and then they act like they don’t even know you days later.
Their emotions changed in the mean time.
If you want to re-ignite the spark, you need to bring up the energy.
Talk about a shared experience (even if it was mundane – it creates familiarity).
And then dig deeper into emotional things…
A quote I live by for my conversations with people, and especially women is this:
“People will do anything for those who encourage their dreams, justify their failures, allay their fears, confirm their suspicions, and throw rocks at
Once you start weaving these concepts into your conversation, you will become skilled at the art of building up “emotions” with women.
And even though this post was about women, it can apply to all your interactions with people in your life. Pheromones are powerful tools that can help shape the “image” you want to create for yourself. Some of the best pheromones for men (http://houseofpheromones.com/pheromones-for-men-best/)are specifically designed for this purpose. Some pheromones just give you an “upper hand”, while other create vastly unique personal interactions by changing how people perceive you.
While most guys carry on about how great their job is, or try to talk to women about things they don’t actually care about…
You will be that one guy who they can have a laugh with, share deep conversation, and feel appreciated by.
Women will slowly begin to unravel, and they will inevitably develop a bond with you. This is how normal friendships are formed.
This is exactly how you can turn a no into a yes. There IS, however something you must do immediately to avoid making it a purely platonic friendship.