They never take a critical look at themselves, and suspect their pheromones or combination wasn’t powerful enough, had too much this, too little that.
I think it comes down to 1 thing:
It’s called laziness.
My pops always told me that “charity begins in the home”.
That’s another way of saying how you do one thing, is how it will translate to other things… in fact, this has been one of the most “true” statements I have ever known about.
It’s advice that always sticks in the back of my head as I go about my day, do productive things, and in general when I am trying to improve my life.
So why am I telling you this?
It seems to me lately, that the questions I get on a day to day basis regarding pheromones have VERY basic solutions.
Some guys think if they just had the “right” pheromone combo, then a specific girl will like them back. If they just “say the right thing” or “do something cool” then they can spark the attraction of a woman.
But for most of these guys… it NEVER happens.
Maybe the girl will have a moment of clarity, and see the guy as someone so incredible that they can’t live without you. But it will only be for a fleeting moment.
Winning a girl over permanently – or on a “temporary” basis if that’s your thing only happens to very few guys in the grand scheme of things.
So what’s the difference between guys who win girls over, versus guys who don’t?
Here are some major keys that separate successful guys from unsuccesful.
Having your own life full of passion, love, healthy friendships.
Working on yourself. Improve your social skills, charisma, flirting, confidence, and other interpersonal skills to help you navigate through life.
Being a “go getter” – be an entrepreneur, or have professional career/business aspirations and strive to achieve them.
Now I know what you’re thinking… what does any of that have to do with getting girls?
Like I said before – how you do one thing, is how you do other things.
That means if you’re lazy, it will show up in the way you communicate, at your workplace, in your group of friends, and how other people see you. It’s NOT attractive behavior.
But if you’re a go getter, it means you go after what you want in life, you have passions/skills, great friendships that improve you as a person… then how will other people see you? Attractive.
That’s how you start the journey to becoming a “magnetic” kind of person that gets women most guys can only dream of getting.
So can pheromone products really help you if you’re not at the “ideal” place you want to be?
But you should also remember that what you feel and believe on the inside, often translates to how people percieve you on the “outside” too.
Pheromones can change that, but always keep working on yourself and give yourself credit.